:: Cranky, no more ::

madamsarcastic n I were supposed to have our morning jog at ECP today but apparently we ended up waking at 2 pm, an 'indecent' hour for anakdara's. hee.

sleeping does wonder. im over my cranky mood. like my bestie highlighted to me that my real problem is that I dont have a real problem, even if I have a problem I could never identify the root of the problem because really there wasnt any real problem. Ok, dont try to comprehend. I know Im that lost. And then out of nowhere bestie said, 'I want a rich husband'. Ohkie, now where did that come from?

Look at the model on my template. If I had half of her fine features, would I be forgiven for my stupidity and lack of character? Time to time if you are kpoh enough to observe the couples around you, do you wonder if looks was one of their main criteria in finding a partner. Looks for me, maybe no. Yes, looking and adoring cute men is normal like men gawking at young beautiful women. Theres no rule in this world that says you cant look but beauty is something that will wear off especially in women. Ohkie, I still have this theory that men as they get older, they 'miraculously' become more charming and attractive and its otherwise for most women.

So what do woman really look into when finding a man? (Im just representing myself on this one, if its the same for - its purely coincidental. hee)
1. Security
- We enter a relationship with a man because we need to feel secure and no it doesnt mean we that are insecure, its just a feeling of having someone to protect you at the end of the day and most importantly to hold you and assure you that everything will be fine during your tough moments. Even the most independent woman could not deny the absolute importance of having a man's touch or a man's presence for that matter of fact in her life. Not unless the woman has chosen to be a lesbian for the rest of her life.
2. Good listener
- God knows how we women could never understand men and vice versa. It had been proven for many-many years by people who study relationships like John Gray and Allan/Barbara Pease that women enjoy talking and men prefer to be most of the time silent. It can get exasperating, Ive experienced this countless of times, when you keep on talking and your partner does not respond. But when you think back, maybe he just wants to be a good listener.
3. Fat wallet (plus generous)
- This is when bestie 'dior-I-want-a-rich-husband' comes in. I am a woman we could pass a man's good looks over (not his boulder stomach) but his wittiness, character and yes generosity. So what if we are financially independent, at times we need a man to buy us gifts. Its called pampering.

I had an interesting conversation with by last night.
Beauty, brains or personality in a woman? Take your pick.
Brains because the two will come naturally after that - By.
:)