Wednesday, September 21, 2005

i could count hw many words By exchanged wit me today.
and if u think im gonna start ranting bt being neglected n other things that are synonymous to neglect, you r wrong. bcoz today im gonna put forth a rather positive outlook on my rela. :) wah, terror se. haha.

By n I are classmates n had been fr d past 3 years; which in my opinion has its pros n cons too.
We grew in d same work environment and even share d same circle of friends-so theres no running away from each other. N its unfair to our friends bcoz when we confide in them, they have no choice bt to listen to 2 different perspectives-frm headstrong By n d emotionally unstable me. And well, d fact is that in general when someone confides to another, its always HIS or HER version of the story. The situation may nt be like that bt if its perceived as such by an individual, the message thats been sent across to d confidante will be what HE or SHE wants d other party to hear. But thankful enough, our friends never did buy any versions of our story bcoz they knew as personally. Suffice it to say our friends had been great listeners and wonderful supporters of our relationship.

Now that Ive understood By's principles of life -- i learnt never to delve into matters that does not concern me or our rela. n d most important thing is to know that I'm sharing By with his interests, his peers n his family. So i tke no ownership of By as my loved one. I dun haf to put a tag 'Hes Mine' on By. Bcoz hes old enough to be responsible for his choices, had proved that hes responsible, least I could do is grant him d freedom to live his life with his friends, peers n family.

Yes. Mira is sane n emotional-free today. Thank god, fr miracles.

Love
that weathers all storms
Love
that defies all odds
Love
that understands it all --
Love is all around.

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