Im a fan of John Gray books.
The Mars and Venus collection.
Got a gd deal..
5 bucks for the Mars&Venus Diet n Exercise solution
at the Books Warehouse Sale...

Behaviours that men generally dont engage in:
1) Men generally don't light up when they see babies, nor do they talk about wedding showers. The cells in their bodies don't long to cradle a baby in their arms.
2) Men generally don't hug after business meetings but they will make jokes and congratulate each other.
3) Men generally don't give compliments on a basketball court about each other's outfits. A man generally doesn't or care if his teammate has new shorts to match his new shoes.
4) Men generally don't notice when a friend gets his hair cut. Not only do women notice, but they may feel hurt if you don't notice.
5) Men generally don't rejoice in having to shop for presents well in advance, wrap them, and buy cards. Most men would rejoice if Valentine's Day didnt happen every year.
6) Men like massages but they don't frequent spas the way women do, nor do they pamper themselves with regular facials or pedicure treatments.
7) Men generally don't talk about wedding plans and fuss over all the details.
8) Men generally don't feel hurt if an old friend doesn't call for ten years and then happens to call.
9) Men generally don't offer to carry something for a friend unless he asks.
10) Men generally don't volunteer to make cookies for the school bake sale.

Its interesting to know that Martians speak a different language and is often misintepreted if conversed in the Venus world.
We do know our genetic differences.
Even our body produces different levels of hormones.
And sometimes because of a little tiff,
we get closer than we were before.
Which is amazing as time to time we learn more about our partner.
When he is returning to his 'cave'.
When u should allow some space for himself.

And man being man.
Truth be told, if they love someone.
It means they love someone.
Quoted from John Gray;
"A woman needs to feel the assurance that she is still special to a man. In the beginning of a relationship, a man goes overboard to let her know that she is special. Once this message is communicated successfully, he mistakenly concludes that he doesn't have to give her this assurance anymore. As she gets older, after the inevitable ups and downs of any relationship, she needs more assurance that after all these years her partner still loves her. A man reasons that he doesn't have to remind her of his name everyday, so why can't she just remember that he loves her?"

They say knowledge has no boundaries.
with knowledge comes apprehension.......

Taken aback awhile.
I guess it boils down to that everyone has their own perceptions on things and none should say whether its right or wrong.
Respect for other's personal preferences, indifference, choices are what men often overlooked.
"Kita sama semuanya sama; yang ada hanya sebuah kehidupan."
Words, written or spoken, are deadlier than sword.